Faded Spring

    I Was Catfished Before MTV Even Made It A Thing

    Online dating can be freaking scary, in fact before I tried online dating myself, I was convinced that it was for people who were 'desperate' but I soon realized that wasn't the case. There is this huge stigma around online dating and how we are conditioned into becoming people that we are 'not' all for the sake of preserving normality in the face of others. Which is why when you meet someone in person, you can become disappointed, as we paint visual realities in our heads that don't quite match the person that turns up on your date. Which is maybe why I am still single, but then again I think its more a case of guys being intimidated by my defense wall but that is a story for another ... read more

    Faded Spring Talks Business Travel In Singapore

    I have always admired bloggers who travel the world and have left their normal lives to go backpacking. While I would imagine myself as being more of a 'tourist' rather than a 'nomad' , I am nevertheless looking forward to travelling to as many countries as possible. I mentioned in previous posts that I would be going to Spain and Tuscany but I have always been fascinated by 'Asian Countries' like Malaysia, specifically Singapore which is a global financial hub, boasts a tropical climate and has a multicultural population that is not too dissimilar to London. My fascination with Asia stemmed from childhood where unlike the peers around me who loved 'British cuisine' I was far more interested ... read more

    Why 2017 Is My Year To Travel

    2017 is destined to be my year; in September and October alone I am set to travel to Tuscany and Spain and I cannot wait. After a 'travel dry spell of 5 years, my wild spirit is back in action and I am look forward to seeing where my blog takes me next. You see 5 years ago I traveled to Madeira (where my parents are from) only to discover that it would be the last time I would see my grandma again, as she sadly passed away after. It broke my heart but I knew that she was not in pain anymore but that was not the sole reason why I stopped travelling. I was stuck in a time period of depression and anxiety, while working, studying for an intense degree in English Literature, English Language and ... read more

    10 Reasons Why You Should Visit Madeira This Summer

    I am blessed to have biological heritage that originates from the 'paradise on earth' that they call 'Madeira'. Despite growing up in an English family aged ten, I was also aware of my Portuguese roots and throughout my childhood years had traveled to Madeira until my passport was destroyed by my stepmother, but that's a half a decade battle for 'citizen status' that I wont go into right now.Still I digress; it might not be a 'ravers haven' and you're more likely to go 'hiking' than partying but for someone like myself who prefers swimming in the sea or long mountain hikes to getting rat arse drunk, it's little wonder that I have so much love for my parents homeland. One of the best places ... read more

    Spa Seekers Event At The Mayfair Hotel

    After quitting my job to blog full time I was scared but strangely exhilarated. Despite the large dent in my bank account and impending rent and bills looming over my head, I relished the challenges that each day brought. No longer were my days confined by routine and instead I could be free to make each moment different to the next; in short full time blogging meant that no two days were the same. We often question, when it comes to making large decisions whether we made the right choice but the truth is we are scared of the unknown and that's ok. Leaving the security of a full time job can be frightening but it is something I would recommend to anyone who is in a job that does not ... read more

    How Childhood Abuse Turned Me Into A Warrior

    I was a young girl, torn apart from her parents and plunged into the realm of the unknown. Born into a broken home, I found myself constantly searching for a home to call my own, afraid to mark somewhere as mine, when so many things had been taken from me. I was raised by a single dad aged 2 (and a half), childminded until I was 4, abused by my dads wife E until I was 10 and raised in care until I was 18. Is it little wonder then that in the space of 5 years I have moved 8 times, in search of my forever home, only to find my dream had never existed in the first place. You see I saw my life through numbers; my age was not a milestone but a memory of what life once was. But do I regret the ... read more

    Why Dining Rooms Could Save Us From Technology

    It seems ironic that a 23 year old woman who lives in a house share should talk to her readers about interior design and planning her future home but the truth is I have always been interested in 'interiors'. Growing up my foster mum made sure that I was 'hands on' and taught me how to paint, garden and do basic housing renovations. After all she believed that there was more to chores than just 'washing up' and I couldn't have agreed more. Naturally moving to London means that it has been a while since I have seen a 'dining room' but as someone who lives half of her life in a fantasy world, I don't see any harm in some good ol' fashioned make believe. When I went into care aged 10 I settled ... read more

    Faded Spring’s Love Affair With Rose Gold

    Up until I was 18 I was disinterested in jewellery and while I saw 'it as pretty' I never made the effort to accessorize my outfits with earrings, rings and bangles as I do now. I was never much of a silver or gold fan and while my birth stone 'sapphire' was beautiful, it still lacked the appeal that drew me to fashion in the first place. But then out of nowhere I discovered rose gold, glistening like copper, reddish-pink in tone. It held mystical properties and stood out from the crowd of gold and silver that my peers seemed to favour. It was delicate, feminine yet unisex too and brought into the 90's minimalism that was popular at the time. Suddenly I began lavishing myself with simple ... read more

    Dating Disasters With Tiffany: He Cheated On Our First Date!

    I think we have well and truly established that there are some total 'fuckboys' and 'fuckgirls' out in the dating world that give us 'Good un's' a bad rep. From men who force you to babysit his kid, to being stood up, through to worst first dates and cringey chat up lines, it is clear that the dating pool is a tricky sea to navigate. Lets face it, the majority of us have had some form of harassment, unwanted attention or dates that have gone wrong but have you ever been cheated on... right in front of you? I have been cheated on several times in relationships and have met many a fuckboy in my time but unlike poor Tiffany I have never had my date make out with someone else in front of me! ... read more

    Getting Ready For Summer With OD Clothing

    Ah summer, the season of love, sun, sea and vitamin D. Where else but summer can you find a holiday romance or leave the rainy confines of England for a more 'sunnier clime'? What I love about summer is how it changes the people around you; suddenly those banker wankers are all loosened up and that constant grimace they seem to have on their faces like they have just farted seem to relax into Cheshire cat grins. But no wonder tourists call us 'miserable and reserved', when an absence of sunshine correlates with lack of sleep and gruelling work hours should we cut this city boys a little bit of slack? After all 12 hour days are never fun. Luckily I have quite the passion for 'imaginary ... read more