Experience Local Living: A Guide to Boutique Stays

Are you someone who stays in luxury hotels, that are well known? Or are you someone who prefers boutique stays, to experience local living? As much as I love the idea of a ‘luxury stay’, a boutique stay is more appealing. Why? Because there’s more to travel, than just ‘tourist attractions, which includes popular hotels’. I’ve lost track of the amount of tourists who have stayed in London, and not looked past the London Eye, Tower Bridge and Big Ben. They stay in hotels like Claridges and The Ritz, which as nice as they are, don’t offer an accurate representation of London. There’s more to London. What about Richmond Park, Dulwich, Peckham, and Leyton? Exploring a new city, town, or country can be exciting, filled with opportunities to learn and discover. Yet, many travellers miss out on the chance to connect more deeply by adopting the local way of life. By choosing to travel locally, you not only support local businesses and communities but have the opportunity to immerse yourself in the local culture. From tasting authentic cuisine, to creating lasting memories that will stay with you for a lifetime, you’ll never be bored.

So why boutique? It offers a unique blend of personalised comfort and cultural immersion, bridging the gap between standard hotels and a homely stay. But what is a boutique hotel? Boutique stays are a small stylish hotel that are located in urban areas. They are well known for their unique design, decor and atmosphere. They have an intimate vibe, have a small amount of rooms, and often reflect the local culture and surroundings. I personally enjoy boutique hotels more than a mainstream one because they are less crowded, have better customer service, and enhances your travel experience. It’s like travelling abroad to visit family. A one of a kind experience that knows what you like, when you like it, and why you like it. This guide highlights the benefits of boutique stays and how to experience local living like a pro.

 

Discovering Boutique Accomodation Options 

Boutique accommodations transform travel into an opportunity to connect deeply with local culture and traditions. AparthotelsPlatforms like Native Places  provide curated experiences that immerse visitors in the authentic essence of a destination. From stylish stays in bustling cities to cosy retreats in quieter locales, boutique options cater to diverse preferences, offering a unique blend of charm, comfort, and individuality. Looking for a grade II listed spacious apartment in ST Paul’s? Native King’s Wardrobe, once safeguarded the king’s state and ceremonial robes and those of the Royal Family. Although it is near to beloved tourist attractions like Tate Modern, and Borough Market, hidden gems can be found too. Think Triforium Library, Postman Park, and The Model Room.

Looking for staycations in the UK further afield? Native Manchester is on my wishlist? Why? Winner of The Sunday Times Best Hotel, North of England 2019, this grade II Ducie Street Warehouse is well-connected. Not only does it have a lounge, restaurant, bar and all-day deli counter. It also has a takeaway shop, cinema, outdoor terrace, and fitness classes from BLOK. Like the other boutique hotels, it allows you to experience local living. People might know Manchester for the Ethiad Stadium, Manchester Museum and Manchester Art Gallery, but i’ve got alternative options. From Fletcher Moss Park and Botanical Gardens, to Dusk To Prawn and Victoria Baths, you’ll never be bored.

Why Boutique Hotels?

Many boutique hotels are self-catered, with fully equipped kitchens. I love staying in a boutique hotel, preparing meals with fresh ingredients from local markets. This not only reduces dining expenses but also provides a hands-on way to explore local culinary traditions. For example, visiting a market for regional specialities offers insights into the area’s flavours and culture. In London, we have an amazing collection of markets including Camden Market, Greenwich Market, Marylebone Farmers Market and Brockley Market. But the same can be said for around the world too. Adding to the appeal, many boutiques also host workshops or cultural activities, creating opportunities to engage with local artisans and traditions, such as pottery, cooking classes, or craft-making sessions. When I stayed in Sri Lanka, we experienced a local cookery class, a private boat trip and even a chef’s table experience. 

Another highlight is sustainability. Many boutique stays source eco-friendly materials such as bamboo, cork and even straw. As a traveller you can also help to support the local community and preserve cultural heritage. You can shop at local, small, and independent small businesses, eat at hidden gem restaurants, and partake in responsible activities that positively impact the community and environment. For example, if you were staying in central London, i’d reccomend eating at E3 Vegan, a small intimate restaurant near Mile End, with a £30 dine in menu. For shopping, i’d suggest small UK brands like Olivia Rubin, and Jayley Collection. For responsible activities (which just happen to be free), see art at Kenwood House, take a walk in Richmond Park, and see a free rehearsal at the Royal Opera House, on certain dates. 

For families or groups, boutique aparthotels are especially ideal, offering multiple bedrooms and communal living spaces to make travel more enjoyable and accommodating. This is particularly beneficial in destinations like London, where visitors can balance the vibrancy of the city with the comfort and privacy of a personalised stay.and working closely with local communities. By staying in such places, travellers contribute directly to supporting the local economy and preserving cultural heritage. As well as experiencing a local lifestyle, a boutique stay comes with all the amenities you know and love. Most will have housekeeping, while some have partnerships with nearby restaurants, guided tours, and experiences with animals.

Engaging with Local Culture and Community

I mentioned earlier that boutique accommodations provide a unique way to connect with local communities. These establishments often work with nearby businesses to offer dining options, cultural activities, and experiences that reflect the area’s identity. For example, from personal experience, i’ve been able to explore local cuisines through cooking classes and food tours. In Sri Lanka, we stayed for two days in an incredible boutique hotel called Aliya Resort & Spa. It was a luxury eco-hotel with an infinity pool, Ayurveda spa facilities, four restaurants, jazz bar, night club and karaoke room. We enjoyed a private tour of the boutique hotel, as well as a private supper club. We enjoyed local delicacies such as Hoppers, Jackfruit Curry, and Cashew Curry.

Supporting small businesses through these experiences helps strengthen the local economy and encourages responsible tourism. As well as this, joining in workshops and events at these venues allows you to meet others, share stories, and learn about the culture directly from residents. By taking part in neighbourhood activities or visiting local attractions, you add depth to your travel experiences. These activities often uncover unique aspects of a destination, leaving travellers with memorable stories. For example in Sri Lanka, we got to visit an ethical elephant sanctuary, see dolphins in the sea, visit temples, and chat to locals. When it comes to experiencing local, you’ll have a trip of a lifetime!

The Perks Of Long Stays 

While short trips can be exciting, extended stays in boutique accommodations provide a deeper connection to the destination. Many establishments offer discounts and added conveniences for longer visits, making them an appealing choice for those looking to immerse themselves in a location.Longer stays allow for more relaxed exploration, giving you time to uncover hidden gems and enjoy a slower pace. Instead of rushing through landmarks, you can revisit favourite spots, discover local markets, or spend leisurely mornings at a café, gaining a more genuine understanding of the area. For me personally, as someone who lives with anxiety, I always prefer longer stays. I don’t like to rush when I travel, and don’t want to squeeze 6-8 activities every day. Instead, I like to embrace ‘slow travel’. I disconnect from the fast-paced lifestyle I live in London, and stay in the moment. 

As well as this, extended stays can also establish a sense of routine, making your experience feel more like home. Joining fitness classes, volunteering in community projects, or attending seasonal events can create opportunities to interact with residents and become more involved in the local way of life. I have always wanted to stay on a farm, in exchange for helping out with the animals. It would teach valuable life skills like running a small business, connecting with animals and nature, and helping you stay grounded. I truly feel that a long boutique stay allows you to practice gratitude. It helps you be grateful for what you have, while enriching your life. 

Cost savings are another advantage. As I said, many boutique stays are self-catered.  Having access to a kitchen lets you prepare meals with fresh local ingredients, reducing dining expenses while offering a chance to experience the region’s culinary offerings in a hands-on way. Additionally, many areas host free community activities or events, enriching your stay without adding to your budget. For example, they might put ice-breaker sessions to make friends with the other residents, do paint and sip nights, or do group tours showcasing the best of the area you are in. For me, this lends to a more enriching travel experience. I end up having a stronger connection to the destination, and it is cost-effective too.

Customising Your Travel Experience 

Boutique accommodations allow you to shape your trip based on your interests and preferences. Staff at these establishments are often attentive to individual needs and can assist in crafting a personalised itinerary to make the most of your stay. Me and my partner went to a gorgeous vegan boutique hotel in Essex called Glasshouse Retreat. They were not only excellent at catering to my allergies, but had fitness classes, cooking demos, mindfulness sessions, a swimming pool, natural pond and saunas. As well as this, the food was healthy, vegan, organic, and used local produce. Although it was one of those retreats were you would stay there, it had everything we needed under one roof. 

Whether your interests lie in visiting art galleries, exploring historical landmarks, or experiencing local culture, boutique staff can provide valuable insights and recommendations. Their suggestions often include hidden gems and lesser-known spots that add unique moments to your trip, giving you experiences beyond the typical tourist trails.Many boutique accommodations also offer concierge services to help organise activities, including guided tours, cultural workshops, or even adventure-based experiences. This personalised support ensures that your time is both fulfilling and memorable, adding value to your stay.

 

Balancing Comfort And Authenticity 

When it comes to experiencing local living, there’s a fine line between being comfortable, while remaining authentic. Boutique accommodations offer a unique blend of comfort and authenticity. Unlike larger hotels that may feel standardised, boutique stays often reflect the character of their location. Rooms and apartments are frequently decorated with themes or designs inspired by the local culture, creating a distinctive and immersive environment.This approach allows you to enjoy the charm and individuality of your destination while still benefiting from modern comforts.

Many boutique properties are housed in historic or architecturally unique buildings, yet they offer conveniences like high-speed internet, comfortable furnishings, and well-equipped kitchens.The combination of authenticity and comfort ensures that you don’t have to choose between experiencing the essence of a place and enjoying the amenities that make your stay relaxing. This balance enriches your experience, enabling you to engage more deeply with the local atmosphere while maintaining the ease and convenience of a well-equipped home away from home. For me, I like to be comfortable, but I also like to connect with locals. I have done experiences where I have stayed in a small hotel, had a trip to someone’s house abroad, or exchanged my skills for a stay abroad. Boutique living really is a hidden gem that deserves way more attention. However, i’m happy to keep it a secret…. for now. 

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*Disclaimer 

Please note, this is a collaborative post but all thoughts are my own and are not affected by monetary compensation. I would love to know whether you enjoy experiencing local cuisines, art, and cultures.