I felt like my whole world had come crashing down, my baby that I had watched over for a year, snatched from me before my very eyes. I worked so god damn hard, only for it to disappear without warning or notice. You see the story began a year ago, I noticed that a group I had joined had so many members but the only posts that were visible in the feed were spam and porn. I had an idea to put up posts that members could join in and the response was phenomenal; a few days later I was contacted by the original founder and creator of the group, Bloggers United who asked me to assist her, by creating threads. I did more than that, as soon as I was made admin I cleared at least four months worth of spam and inappropriate content, removed inactive and inappropriate members and started the group from scratch. When the founder had seen that I had changed the settings to have only admin approved posts visible, she questioned my decision and took away the spam filter. All my hard work was getting undone but I needn’t have worried, despite her claims that she was the boss and I was her puppet, she left me to run the group with help from lovely members. The group flourished and hearing messages from members who praised what I was doing (and even in some instances stating that it had changed their lives), it meant the whole world to me. For eight whole months I did not hear a single whisper but then the bitchery began …
I woke up one morning to see that mine and the others admin’s messages were crammed with abusive, rude attacks on our leadership skills, claiming the group had gone ‘stale’ and essentially berating all the hard work we had put into running ‘her group’. She was ungrateful and inconsiderate and didn’t care that I was running a huge group, putting up threads and messaging members, while the other admin sorted through any nonreciprocating members and policed the group; in her very own words she made it look like she had never been away and we had done ‘jack all’. We sure didn’t need these negative vibes and tried to find a way to delete her from the group, especially as she was trying to get money from the members which I completely disagreed with. But sadly she remained part of the group, since she had created Bloggers United in the first place. Again she disappeared and once again the group resumed its normal activity. I work multiple jobs and run the group alongside a blog but if I ever couldn’t put up a thread because I was sick or exhausted there would always be a lovely member to help me out. We were a community, we were a family and we would never be broken. Except the nasty messages resumed, on the year anniversary that I had taken over Bloggers United, I again woke up to nasty messages but this time it was worse…
Last Tuesday, I woke up with a jolt and sensed that something was not right. I checked the group and saw that the original founder had put up a pinned post essentially promoting her own business and trying to get money from the members again, so of course I unpinned it. Blogging has never been just about the money for me and I am not keen on people using groups to try and force people to subscribe to ‘their services’. What followed next were a sequence of events that saw me publicly humiliated, abusive messages and even an attempt to blackmail me. I had just come home from work and didn’t need this kind of negative energy ruining mine or the other admins name. I felt crushed and I felt heart broken. I was called names and she even put up public posts stating how she was back in charge and that I was basically shit at running the group. It made me so angry, how dare she tell other members that I was not capable when excuse my French she had done fuck all in the time that I had been an admin? I asked her to delete her nasty posts about me and we resumed the argument over messenger.
She claimed she was not discrediting our hard work but when someone undermines your hard work and pretends that I was ‘only assisting them’, I am sorry but wake up and smell the bulls**t, because in my world basic bitches are not wanted. Because I dared to question her negative attitude, both me and the other admin were removed as admins. I couldn’t stop the tears from falling and rang my best friend who was able to calm me down as I was in the middle of a panic attack. I had the idea to start a new group where I would have full control and not be told what I could and couldn’t and the love and support I received from members were a salve for my wounded heart. When I say that bloggers are the best community you could ever find, I mean it. With the exception of a few basic bitches, the majority have been nothing but loving and kind to me and my other blogging friends.
But the drama was still unfolding and I was horrified by what happened next. Not only did she delete the threads I had put up where many members had participated but she also put up more sly posts about me and basically made out as though she had been the one working hard all year and not us. She claimed she removed as because she was back now and the fact that I was getting offended by all her nasty comments was ‘laughable’. In fact she stated that I had only assisted with running the group and never followed her rules. Well excuse me, if you have been away for a year and I don’t agree with your policies then like hell am I going to pander to your every singular need, especially when you dare to critique who I am as a person and as an admin. No I am sorry, it does not work like that. I always give people a Second Chance but you had a chance too many and while I can forgive and forget, I will never be your friend again, not now, not ever. Because what kind of person threatens someone half her age and threatens to do horrible things to her? As soon as she found out that I had created a separate group (International Bloggers United) she told me that not only did I need to take it down but if I didn’t she would be ‘sure to tell Bloggers United’ and all the other groups that she was part of ‘ the issues she had with me – what issues were these exactly?- and spread rumors about me in the blogging world. She blocked me from the group and called me a joke, more nasty messages had ensued and the only option was to block her basic bitch ass. She tried to blackmail me into being the puppet that she so obviously craved but it didn’t work and do you know why it didn’t work? Because the only thing she was after was money.
It was the morning after and once again I was sent messages from other members who wanted to know what had happened. But it seemed that my attempts to stay positive had worked and a digital media manager who had reached out to me previously about buying the group (to which I had said no) brought the group off the original founder and made me admin once more. Again its not my group but at least I now have a new group International Bloggers United which I have full control of. I am thankful to him because he rescued my baby and helped me because it would be mutually beneficial to the both of us. Despite how upset or angry I might come across in this post, I have had time to process everything that has happened and realized that it must have been fate. Although I was sent abusive messages, bullied and blackmailed I managed to get her removed from my group entirely, regain full control as admin and set up a new smaller group too. I don’t hate her but I do pity her. She sold the group in 45 minutes, because clearly she didn’t care enough about the group to put up a fight. When I was given a very good offer that could have solved all my money issues and not have me struggling to pay rent every month I refused. And do you know why? Because when you are passionate about something, money is not the biggest concern.
Have you ever had a situation were you have been blackmailed or cyber bullied?
Please note, I have now had the time to process the hurt, let go and move on with my life. It happened but I didn’t let it take over my life, after all I have my own issues to think about without extra people getting involved. Always remember ‘If you can’t love yourself then how in the hell are you going to love somebody else?’
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It is a great group for posting threads and we must stay humble to others, rude behavior gives others a wrong impression.
You don’t need those sorts of people, they will bring you down
I’m so sorry that you had to go through all that. You’re doing an excellent job. As always, you look stunning. Love, love that outfit.
Oh wow! I just want to give you a big hug. It makes me so sad that there are people like that around. I can’t stand bullies!
What an awful thing to happen, I am glad that things improved and you can take the group forward to better things.
That’s terrible behaviour – how could she try to charge bloggers that were essentially in the group to help each other?
I’m sorry but what a f**king rude, unappreciative, ungrateful, selfish little b*itch!! After all of the amazing work you had done. Well, take a few breathes in, let it go and move on because karma has plans for her one day!! You have now created an amazing group that I’m apart of and you will make this THE blog group to be in on Facebook. You got this girl, you are fabulous and a beautiful soul x
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You are so lovely hun! She tried to make me out to be a bad person and undermined all the hard work me and the other admins had done but it didn’t work because people knew the truth! Some even thought that I was the original founder of the group so it just goes to show who was the one putting in all the hard work! Thanks for your sweet comment, hope you are ok xx
I didn’t realize blogging groups like this one even existed until less than six months ago. After joining a number of them .. I realized each really has it’s own vibe. Bloggers United quickly became my favorite for a number of reasons. The main ones being: 1. Everyone participating in the threads made a genuine effort to complete them. 2. I really enjoyed the variety (and quality) of member’s content. In most cases it was written with a more mature voice. 3. There wasn’t a lot of self-promoting or spam-type content to wade through. Instead the same predictable threads were posted each day.
Therefore when I logged in the day of the “take-over” I was dismayed! What’s happening?
Ana .. I’m so glad you’ve been able to step back and put some mental space between yourself and the other. Bravo to you! You stayed true to who you are. People can sense that in a person .. that they’re good and willing to stand up for what is right. I’m convinced that’s why all of the members love you so.
I never understand the need for people to tear others down. How is that in any way good?
It’s really too bad that she pulled something like that. Like you said, you put in a ton on time to help get that group going and make it better – and it’s not like you were getting paid. You did it in your spare time. What the hell is wrong with some people?
Wow, I cannot believe how awful some adults behave. That is just horrible. I’m sorry you went through that nonsense.
I have been cyberbullied before. Some people don’t list my posts or how I parent, so I can receive some pretty negative messages. I’ve learned to brush them off, but I still always wonder why people have to be so nasty. Clearly they live unhappy lives.
Such a horrible person she is! I’m glad you were able to win and move past that. #InternationalBloggersUnitedAllTheWay :*
I agree that sometimes in FB grouos there are tons if unnecessary dramas, but i applaud what your did (slap that bitch!). I haven’t bullied online, and i know many who are, but sometimes being silent is not the best remedy. Sometimes you have to fight back and let them know you can’t be bullied.
I don’t know what to say. People…..I’m in the group and I love how supportive everyone is. I hope that she won’t cause you any more trouble!
Sounds like a horrible situation. I’m glad you managed to turn it into a positive with your new group
What a horrible situation to be in, lucky I’ve not experienced anything like this before x
As others have said there’s just no point in having these sort of people in your life!
I just joined the group and you seem to be doing great! Keep it up
It’s so awful when people are like that, especially when you’ve worked so hard to get somewhere, and to help others too! I’m glad you’ve had time to process it all now and that hopefully you’re letting the negativity go!
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So sad and bitter for her to react that way, you made the group to what it was and yet she claimed it all. Everyone knew the truth but must have still been difficult for you!
I only recently joined the group in question so I missed all of this but I am so sad that you were targeted in this way. It sounds like jealousy to me, and well done you for standing up for yourself. I hope now you can carry on doing a great job in the group and I hope to get involved more in the threads.
I really cannot stand it when admin of FB groups become power hungry. I’m in a few groups, some are okay, some are not – Their rules are sometimes crazy and don’t apply to them, just the people they try to make £££ off! Glad it’s all sorted now. P.S. Love the shoes!
I love the deconstructed shirt dress! It looks amazing on you 😍 You have such a great style x
Well done for maintaining your sense of perspective on it and for not letting her drag you down. It sounds like it was a really awful time for you. I think that some people think that sitting on a keyboard gives them an excuse to be vile. I always think that if I wouldn’t say it to their face then I won’t say it on social media. No need for it. We shouldn’t be tearing each other down but instead supporting and encouraging. There is room for all of us and it is sad when some bloggers turn on each other. I hope that you can move on now.
Thankfully my mummy hasn’t experienced the dark side of blogging or social media….yet. She never realised all this went on behind closed doors 🙁 Sounds like you are strong. Just try and put it behind you xx sorry you are going through this x
So pleased to hear it got sorted out in the end as I know how much time and effort you put into that group x Head high and soldier on x People like that can not bring you down x
I am supporting you, and many other people are doing the same! Keep going! By the way, amazing look 😉
I’m so sorry that you had to go through such a horrible situation after putting such hard work and love into that group. I’m so glad someone stepped in and bought the group and this person is no longer a part of the group. Now you are back there and also have your own little group and everyone will be so much better off without this bully involved.
So happy to have you in charge. I’m so excited for what is to come in the new FB group 🙂 The outfit is gorgeous, hun!! Keep going!
She was only looking for ways to make money. She was never interested in the group, she probably sold it for nothing, not seeing the value in it. I guess she was unable to make money with her own skills, as shown by her astonishingly big Facebook page of 34 likes. People like her don’t deserve anything but their misery.
It’s so funny, I recently did a shoot with this top. I love how you styled it. BTW you are doing an amazing job. Don’t let anyone dim your light.
I don’t know this group but I do feel sad to read stories like this. I wish the blogger world was kinder. I hope things improve for you.
That is really unfortunate that you had to deal with that, sad that people really only care about themselves and what benefits them. And that is horrible that she called you out and bullied you I am so sorry you had to go through that! I am supporting you and you look amazing love the outfit and that pop of blue.
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This is so unfortunate to hear. Yes, I have encountered numerous people who have been overly judgmental behind my back and smile when we are face-to-face. Like you said, I am not mad at the person, I pity them for they are lost and still trying to find themselves. But, kudos to you for not allowing the bs to keep you down. We cry then we take action. That is what true professionals do. I have been around BU for awhile now and am very used to your name as admin. I probably
Same here and I just do not get why people are so judgy and talk behind our backs. Grow up already.
I have created several groups and when things got bad with certain members I would just remove them from the group. I had co-admin’s who helped me out and when the group became too overwhelming from complaining people I Took a step back and let them take over .
So sorry to hear this Ana, you don’t need that negativity around you! I’ve just requested to join your group 🙂 x
It makes me so sad to hear about arguments and bullying in the blogging community! 🙁
We should be united not fighting!
Your shoes are gorgeous 🙂
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So glad to hear it got sorted out in the end. By the way, I love your dress; that is really cute. And I love the pops of blue in this look.
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I’m so sorry you’ve been treated this way. What an awful way to treat someone.
Hi Ana, can’t tell you how much Bloggers United means to me and the community of bloggers that I am getting to know through it. I am going through a very tough time of my life personally and my blog and Bloggers United has kept me sane. Besides that , it has focused me and my blog is growing steadily because of it. Thanks so much Ana for all you’ve done to keep this group going. Onwards and upwards…….XXX
I’m lucky I have only had positive experiences and found other bloggers to be really friendly. I think you are right to feel sorry for her because she has to live with herself…
I really hate it when some people start on others bloggers I’ve seen nastiness around and feel its uncalled for.
I do try and stay out of this kind of negativity I hope u get on well with the group u have set up.
So glad that this story at least had a happy ending, it is horrifying that someone would treat a person who had worked so hard in this way.
I’m glad you won over her, what a horrible person. I have joined the group now
Hugs to you, girl! You need to release those blah people from your soul and move on.
Sorry you went through this, no one should have to. The best thing you can do is not put up with it and remove yourself from the situation. Good job handling a tough circumstance.
Ru Paul has some wise words!! Glad you’ve managed to move on
Threads are actually very useful!! They help you get traffic & exposure. I love them. I’m a part of both the groups & it’s amazing sharing my work there & seeing what everyone else had to offer.
Wow I’m always shocked by how nasty people can be online. I’m sorry you had to go through all of that!
Bloggers can be so cruel to each other! I’m so sorry that happened. I think I might be a part of that group- if so I’m unfollowing it now.
Don’t worry I am back as admin of it now and she is no longer in the group, so feel free to stay. Thank you that means a lot xx
Haven’t been in the group for long but loving it. Anyway who can’t see the amazing job you are doing are. to me, fools. Outstanding its a group i’m so glad to be a part of.
We definitely do not need to keep negative energy around us! I’m glad that you were able to move on from this situation and leave it behind you
That’s just horrible. This is why I keep my circle tiny, including my online presence when it comes to groups. People are just so, I don’t even have the word for it.
Sending a virtual hug! I find it disgusting and sickening how grown adults feel the need to bully others. I hope if they have children they do better than their parent. I’ve never been cyber bullied personally but it shouldn’t be tolerated and the negativity isn’t needed.
That’s great that you were able to make it through all of the bullying she was doing. I can only imagine how rough it must have been when you felt personally invested. Glad it’s over now.
OMG! I am so sorry to read this. I hate drama. I love being an admin for BGS, but sometimes the drama I see is crazy. I hate that you had to experience this. You’re always so sweet to me when I tag you as a reminder. xoxo
I’m sorry you had to experience this. Bullying is awful and not acceptable and shouldn’t be tolerated. You would think grown adults would know better.
I can only imagine what it was like. Pouring so much of your time and effort only to have it taken away from you in a blink of an eye. I am so glad that everything is back to normal.
I was heartbroken when I saw the group. You’ve dedicated so much of yourself into that group and it was painful to see it all taken away. There were so many changes and I considered leaving since it stung to see how the group has become. It’s so nice to have you back Ana! Keep it up!
Hi Ana. I feel so sorry for what happened to you. I can’t forget how you helped me when I was unable to add my client to the group. You went ahead and approved her request to join within minutes of my message to you. I am so grateful that you helped me that day. I had joined a comment thread the day before the “take-over” and I was horrified to find the thread missing and a new admin running the group! I am happy that you are back in the reins and that we can now say bye bye to that person who caused you all this hurt and trouble! Oh, BTW, I put in a request to join the other smaller group too. Looking forward to collaborating with all the wonderful bloggers out there. Well, I know this comment is getting to be lengthy, but I just want to say, “Welcome back!” and keep inspiring!
Bad experiences like those, make you stronger. Continue thinking that way, you’re on the right track girl. Still, more people are here to brighten up your day, and those people are just down, coz they know you’re on the top. Stay fab girl! *snap snap snap
OMG I cant believe that happened to you, so awful. You dont deserve to be treated like that at all. You’re so hard working and so kind xxx
Wow. This bullying thing is real. I’m sorry you had to got through that. Groups are hard work, coupled with your own blog and all. I hope you feel better now.
I love being part of your two of the groups. It’s so awful when people are like that so mean.
Luckily, I haven’t dealt with this situation. But wow, what a nightmare. I don’t get the hostility you faced because there really wasn’t a reason for it. So glad she is gone and you are back to running a successful and positive group.
I am sorry that you had to go through this – people on the internet can be horrible.
When money is the only thing that people after, they ignore human and friendship. Don’t worry, you are in much better place. Don’t walk away from negative people..RUN as fast as you could. I am so sorry to hear you have to go through this. Know that you are much supported and love by many.
Love your outfit and the shoe is the killer though.
What a terrible terrible thing to do to another person! I can’t even believe people lower themselves to spend their precious time on humiliating others. What a waste! So happy for you to have set up your own group – I’ve joined it just! You work so hard and it’s hard for me to imagine someone putting you down so bad! Chin up buttercup, they are not worth it!! xx
I’ve seen how hard you worked on that bloggers group and it’s always been so awesome of you to manage it for fellow bloggers to flourish. I think it’s great that you were able to get it back. That owner is nothing but greedy and she only wants money.
Why anyone feels the need to dish this out or put up with it is beyond me, life is too short!
Oh my gosh I didn’t even know that all that was going on. Well done you for staying true to your ideals and being so graceful and mature! I am glad you are back in control of the group, I for sure really appreciate the hard work you are doing there!
Lots of love xxx
I always wonder how can anyone be so mean? Thank God, everything has been sorted out, and you handle it full with grace. Thank you for your positivity that you keep sharing with us.
Wow Ana she sound like a complete nutjob. What a nasty cow. I had a blogger recently being nasty to me – it was awful. So I know how you feel!!
Jesus, what a total butt munch! I am trully appalled but this idiotic womans behaviour! I am truly sorry that she had dealt with you like this, but look at this way, every cloud has a silver lining, and I am extremly proud of all the hard work you have put into the group.
Wow Ana, what a horrible situation. There are always people out there happy to freeload and take credit where it isn’t due. It happens to my hubby in his line of work all the time. But you’ve done the right thing in getting rid of that toxic person from your life. I fully believe in karma and I doubt whoever she is will make as much money as she is hoping to. She doesn’t deserve it with her behaviour. You are a strong lady and have come away with your principles and dignity. That person has none clearly!
Yikes Ana, this sounds like a whole host of drama – I try to just stay well away from these things! H 🙂 x
What an awful experience! I am so sorry you had to go through that! Her selling it just shows that she was only in it for her own personal gain and not to connect with other bloggers, she is obviously a selfish person!
You went through a tough time because of that but I admire you for loving what you are doing and staying positive. Some people are mean.
What a mean bean. It is not nice to bring people down, what do they achieve by doing that!?
Yes I saw a bit of the drama online. What a shame. Good you have your own group now.
I am sorry this happened to you. It’s so easy to hide behind a computer.
Some people really do need to get a life, I mean honestly, all this bitching is not the reason that we are here on this earth I am sure! x
Oh no, that’s horrible! I can’t stand it when people knowingly take credit for someone else’s work without even mentioning them.. Good thing that all is sorted now and you are back in charge 🙂 X
It sounds like you went through a hell of a lot! It can only get better!
omg, what a horrible story. I’m glad you had the great idea of creating a new group that I’m sure it will be very successful and will help lot of people xx
I hope you or anyone else will not go through something like this again. Wish you keep up good work.
Sorry to hear that negative people made you feel bad. You look lovely and those blue sandals are awesome.
Sorry to hear that happened to you. Social media can be a very scary. It’s hurtful but glad to hear that you’ve let go and move on.
Now you’ve got your own, amazing group. You don’t need that other one, you can make it on your own – as you already were ! You’re in charge, love!
I’m sorry you went through all of this! I would recommend staying away from the drama and starting your own group.
Blogging is the perfect outlet and really should never be about the money. Your outfit is perfect btw
Omg I’m so sorry that happened to you!!! Blogging definitely has a dark side that’s for sure. I see it more and more often these days and ughh…. I wish people would be more genuine and not all about money and numbers
Wow that stinks. I would have started another group like you did and just messaged every member of the other group to come over to the new one and say that one was shutting down haha.
I think it’s unprofessional and juvenile when group administrators behave like that, but I think you handled it pretty well! I’ve encountered plenty of people like that over the years.
It always stinks when you put your heart and self into something and it gets insulted and torn down. I’m really sorry this all happened.
Aww that is awful what you went through! It’s crazy how mean people can be and for no good reason either! you’re doing an amazing job and I just love this beautiful outfit! I’m not sure if I could pull it off but it looks amazing on you!
I was totally surprised to learn people can actually sale blogger groups like how does that happen? Don’t we create them for supporting one another? Wow, anyway Hun love you’re back in charge as I was gonnna delete myself from that group
Goodness! I think I joined that group at some point but that is totally not the kind of thing I want to be involved with. How rude people can be is crazy xx
Ana, I’m so incredibly sorry you’ve had to deal with all this. Karma is inescapable, so she’ll get what she’s dealt. You are so very strong. Xx
It always makes me sad that other bloggers can be so mean to one another, she really does not sound like a very nice person at all. I have never heard of anyone buying a group before x
I had no idea these sorts of things went on in the groups! How unappreciative and rude! It’s good you have another group now because you don’t need her negativity in your life!
Your passion comes across so strongly and I applaud you for getting through this with dignity and integrity. You’ve fought for what you believe and only good things can come to you from this. I’ll be joining your new group! 😘
Kat x
What an absolutely horrible person she is! I can’t believe a grown adult would act in this manner, however it shows the lady that you are, one who won’t be browbeaten into submission.
Oh and by the way, how do I join your groups??
I’m so sorry to hear that Ana that’s an awful thing to go through. Some people can be so mean.
I never understood why people are bitching around just so they can prove they are important ?!? F*ck that ! Spreading negativity about somebody says a lot about the person who does it and sometimes easy manipulated people can`t see it. I am so angry and sad you had to go through all this situation Ana but I am so happy it all sorted out and you are in charge again. Yey !!
You are one heck of a fighter Ana. You don’t let people bring you down and when one door closes, you make sure the right one opens! Go you!! Plus in the end she got her Karma and you got the pay off of your hard work in the group. I’m sorry you had to deal with the drama and hurt, but people see through the mean hearted ones and with an attitude like that the woman isn’t going to make it very far. Xoxo
That sounds like way too much drama to have to deal with. I’m so sorry it happened to you. I refuse to admin any groups because I was admin for a large parenting forum (back before everyone moved to FB), and it was kind of a nightmare at times. Nothing like the nightmare you described, though. I’m glad you have your own group now that you have total control over, and I’ll be checking it out!
Wow what a horrible experience. So not what blogging should be about xx
So sorry you’ve had to go through all this over someone else being greedy and wanting to believe it was their work.
How awful! There is no need for such behaviour. You were helping the group and it isn’t good to undermine you or anyone.
A lot of people are just ridiculous and you have to feel sorry for them because they obviously are very unhappy to act that way!
L x
This is such a sad state of affairs, I can’t see why people behave in such immature ways, Inguess it stems from being insecure or feeling threatened. Just dont let a small bunch of evil minded people spoil what you have achieved.
So sorry to hear that. Sounds like a lot of drama that you don’t need in your life
I am so sorry to hear you ever had to go through this!! In the end, it looks like it all turned out in your favor!
I am sorry to hear what you have been through. Sending you hugs! 🙂
Omg!seriously you have been through so much. You have done such abgreat job with that group and i was wondering what was going on as something did seem off. Glad tohear it all from you and guess what already loving International Bloggers United. If you could do it once, nothing will stop you from making it big again. All the best and thank you for everything you do. Hugs
That’s awful, honestly. I don’t know why people think it is okay to throw things people do for them in their faces. As well as being generally just vile.
You seem lovely, keep being amazing sweet! x
I can’t believe that all this horrible stuff happened! You are doing an absolutely fabulous job running that group so thank you very much!
Wow I always thought you started and ran Bloggers United since you were the only admin I had dealt with. So glad I read this because i didnt know you started another group. Just submitted my join request. To me you are doing a great job and girl….let your haters be your motivators!
Bullying like this really upsets me! I can sympathize with it wholehearted after being horribly bullied most of my life. People want to spread lies and hate about you when you’ve achieved something they wanted to do. Rise above it (as you did) and things will work out right. Glad to be a part of this group with you at the helm.
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I never fail to be surprised how us women don’t support each other enough. We are not all nasty though -I’m so glad to hear that you are not letting one person’s nastiness stop you. From reading the comments above its nice to see that you have support.
I hate how much drama some of the blogger groups have. I’m sorry you went through this. What a horrible experience.
Honestly, Ana, it was like an alien invasion! It was the weirdest experience and must have been quite devastating for you. I was so impressed that you rose above it as majestically as you did. You go girl!
Thank you Ana for being so open and authentic with us. You don’t see many admins doing that. Regarding the issue that happened, it’s good that everything turned out well in the end. Thank you for being a great leader & admin 🙂
What an awful situation, well done to you for trying to stay positive and letting your hard work shine through.
I completely agree with everything you’ve said! People should not be like that at all. It is just horrible to not acknowledge other peoples hard work and then to post about you like that is just horrible! I’m glad things are better now! Definitely don’t need basic bitches like that in our lives!
Oh how terrible! I join in some groups but haven’t with this one. I hope all is ok now. Kaz x
Omgosh! I’m sorry you had such a horrible experience! I’ve never understood why grown women (or anyone for that matter) engage in bullying. There are so many more important things to focus on in life! I’m glad you’ve been able to move on from the hurt 🙂
As much as possible, I stay out of drama and negative vibes on blogging community and even in my personal life. It’s a small world after all. I’m so sorry to hear about what happen. Btw, your outfit looks really lovely!
I am so sorry to hear about that experience, totally sucks! at least now you have your own group! I love your outfit, too.
it sucks but it’s all around us no matter how much we want to be in control. there are times that we aren’t. hopfeully you can distance yourself from the majority of it.
Very cute outfit. Your style is so cute, bitches know this.
Ana, you look incredibly stunning in this outfit. You are so right about the blogging community being the most welcoming and supportive. I am in awe just finding out about this as I journey through it. As for the incident, I am glad to hear you handled the situation right and that everything still fell into place! I joined both groups 🙂
That totally sucks! I try to stay out of drama as much as possible (i just don’t like negative vibes) I’m sorry to hear that that happened. all best wishes and positivity xx btw i love your outfit!
I’m sorry to hear that you had to go through all of that. Good thing you acted matured and not let that person drag you down. I just wish all bloggers would really unite and help each other. Though there might really be immature people along the way. Bloggers United is one of my favorites too. It helps me with my traffic! Thank you!
I joined the group a day ago and I missed all this drama. Just wow! People can be so horrible and can drain you if you all not strong. I’m glad you stood your ground through all that.
I am sure deep down she knows that you were better than her at running the group and so that’s why she sold it – but it’s a shame she got to profit off your hard work.
It must have been so frustrating going through this but you came out the better person for sure. Some people are just very negative and like to perpetuate negativity. Glad you got yourself out and away from that person.
That is crazy! I cannot believe all this happened. I dip in and out of the group and thought you owned it because you do all the work on there. I never saw it kicking off but honestly it doesn’t surprise me. Facebook groups can either be brilliant or totally hostile and I have no idea why. It’s like people go on a power trip or something. Glad you got the group back in order but it’s a shame the original owner profited from it.
I’ve not heard of the drama that’s been going on! I also love the blue heels! xo
They sound like an awful human being! I’m sorry you had to go through all of that, but well done for you for being the bigger person. No one needs people like that in their lives!
Oh my goodness Ana, I had no idea that this kind of thing happens in Facebook groups. I’m so sorry that you were treated this way – it’s horrible :'(
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Oh my goodness!! I had no idea. I’m a member of that group and had seen all your input . How awful of her to react like that . I feel terribly for you !! Well done you for speaking out . Xx
I am in that group but I must have missed the drama. I don’t remember it having many like for like threads but if it did, it doesn’t any more. Sorry for the stress you have been having! Take it as a lesson not to work hard for someone else for free, only do it for yourself. I just asked to join your new group and look forward to participating. Best wishes!!
You know we love you Ana! You do an amazing job! I am so glad you are back in the group and running it. You are doing fabulous. I am sorry you were treated that way! XO
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You’ve handled the entire situation in such a graceful manner. I think you are magnificent and have managed the group in such a professional manner. So glad to see you at the helm again. X
You’ve done it with graceful manner, and shame on them. Stay away on those people and learn to be more firm.
I’m so sorry Ana, she sounds dreadful! I’ve already put in a request to join your group 👍🏻
I saw some of this and was so worried about losing such a great support group. I was thrilled when I found out you had taken over for good. Thanks for all your hard work!!
Oh Ana this sounds awful, I run a group too but tbh I’ve left it to my co-admin to run it whilst I’ve been unwell and I can’t imagine ever speaking to someone who had helped me out for that long so rudely. I’ll be joining your group and good luck with it all 🙂 xx
wow! that was an awful experience. im glad you’ve been able to get out of it. stay strong, you are doing a great job
Girl, I just want to thank you for the fight you put up to make the group what it is. I’m recently active again, as I’m finally back to blogging and doing YouTube, and this group has helped me so much. Seriously. I’ve found so many cool blogs that I wouldn’t have otherwise, and hopefully a few blogger friends. I just want you to know your hard work is extremely appreciated.
I was so shocked to hear all the stuff about the bloggers united group but I am so glad you’re back running it again x
It’s been almost a year that I know this group, and you were one of the admins that worked hard to keep it right and to keep the rules going along with the others. I thank you for all your efforts! She just cares for money. As you can see, if she loved the group then she wouldn’t sell it no matter how much money she would get.
Oh wow! So sorry about that. You seem a lovely person. Bless and release, don’t let anyone bring you down
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This just goes to prove that if you take the high road and keep it classy, you’ll always end up on back on top. Ignore those sad little haters! x
Hi, just wanna say you make an amazing work. Keep it up! And also you look stunning is this outfit, love that dress xx
Oh, I can’t believe this has happened to you, but I can understand now.
I guess it was the same founder who blocked me out of the same group after I made a short remark on her behavior. After that it follow a rampage from her on my DM – about where I’m even from and what’s my culture. I simply told her that it’s obvious she’s banned from the group, so there is no need to be offensive any more. What is done is done, so let’s move on and carry with our lives.
It must have been really upsetting for you though – after you’ve put so much work, effort and your own time into that group. Shame!
Knowing now that you have a new group, I will join the party there :))
She was probably just intimidated by you for doing such a good job. Walk away head held high and start your own group 🙂
UGH I am SO sorry you had to deal with this. I know exactly the group you’re referring to and I had always thought you had done an amazing job. It’s hard work (and something I don’t think I could ever do!) and you seem to do awesome at keeping everything organized. Thank you for all you do in that group, it’s greatly appreciated!
Love that dress. It’s horrible that you had to go through all that abuse!
having your work undermined is the worse but at least you dont have that negativity in your life anymore x